I am
sorry if I heart your feelings in previous blogs because I use narrow mind or
mentality word without any research. So I decide to search parochial mind in
our society including those always who inculpate on our system, government,
police, especially on girls outfit, judiciary, society, culture etc nevertheless they have
respected image in our society apart from this nobody can not argue with them. So I start my search from Delhi
metro where I have been travelling for two years and making discussion on it
with guys. Then I am sharing my discussion experience with you and I hope you
understand that these are my personal opinion and not aim to hearting
individual one.
Last Sunday
I was travelling in the metro, beside me there was a person in jeans, shirt and
he was discussing about girls outfit or dress in regular trends with his
friend. According to him only due to girls dress up sense number of rape cases is increasing
in India because these dresses create excitement in male as well as trying to
attract somebody. In these discussion In these discussion a guy interrupt and
said that his family did not allow to wear jeans , skirt like dresses to his
sister rather she could not go to outside alone for a job.
I was
listening whole discussion and thinking ‘why girls have not freedom for her self
because she is a female or girl’ even some guy interrupt to loud females laugh
in our society, Some norms in life have been wrongly fixed, to a large extent
because of western influence rather many person think that always a women would
be answerable for any mishappening. Just suppose if you restricted in such
social criteria then what would you do, how you will manage, if some body is
passing comment on you, teasing by eyes, trying to harassing you.
Think as girl it is really very
difficult but she manages. We have also sister, mother, wife in house and they
are free to wear anything, free to laugh, free to say but we do not rape, do
not molest, do not pass comment , do not teas. So why we do on the road,
offices, hospitals ? As a writer I believe that a Nation economy also depends on the women
because she gives us power. How wait for my next blog……
Jai
hind jai Bharat.
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