Ending line of my
previous blog ‘yet we accept baby boy not girl’ Now I am saying that we have
developed ourselves and has entered into the globalised world but still our
mentality remain the same related to women. We are living in educated world but
looking for first baby boy not girl. Therefore many Married women go for
pregnancy test to detect sex of the child because they have huge pressure to
produce son in India after marriage either they are from well established
family or educated. So how can we say that we are the part of modern society? So
I am sharing my personal opinion points as a writer without hearting anyone
feeling ‘why are this happening in our society and what we need to change?’
Social
or family prestige: - In our male dominated society boys
are given the special rights to take over the family name and properties rather
if boys did any crime or mistake then viewed as additional social status for
their family either he went to jail or not and on other side if girls did any
mistake then it hurt Social or family prestige. So please give equal rights to
both of them, do not count her as social or family prestige stamp. This has led
to social and economic problems. Girl means not ‘Social or family prestige’
Economic
utility: - an Economy factor is also making sons more
attractive than girls; this is because we consider boys as an additional income
source rather girls taken as financial burden on the family , girls settle
their own house after marriage. Now time has been changed they are performing
their best in all sectors like management, financial etc. even she is the
president and prime minister also ,so we have to understand an importance of
girls excepting as an economic burden. Finally I feel that women Growth means nation
economy growth.
Weaker
gender :-Women are usually viewed as the weaker gender as compared
to men in India because we think that boys are stronger than girls rather she
faces every circumstances and even able to handle worst situation also without
any complaint. As far as my opinion regarding this “she
is the strongest one because not only births baby but also stand them in the
society”. She makes family then ‘how can we consider Weaker gender herself?’
Education:
- “You educate a man; you educate a man. You educate a woman; you educate a
generation.” ― Brigham Young” Education is the key which can clear the path for
society, Teach your sons from childhood to respect girls, importance of girls
rather than teaching your daughters to live safe or avoid anything.
As a writer I belive that It is very easy to blame
government, police, system, docters but not easy to blame our soul which is
actually responsible for these crimes but i feel very guilty to say that we see
girls either a divine or…………………………………wait for my next share.
Jai
hind jai Bharat.
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